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previous spinster Ashley Herbert Admits she’s unwilling to risk her health to save her marriage JP Rosenbaum before their divorce.
“I feel like, you know how women can be under a lot of stress, which is said to lead to autoimmune diseases?” Herbert, 41, said on Thursday, April 9’s “I do, part 2” podcast. “I was like, ‘This marriage is going to kill me. It will kill me. “
She insisted her feelings were “no offense” to Rosenbaum, 49, but added that her overall health played a large role in her departure The relationship is improving 2020.
“I made this decision because I care deeply about myself and my health. Especially for my children. My longevity and being there for my children,” Herbert shared. Son Ford, 11, and daughter Essie, 9explains with Rosenbaum.
Looking back on the end of her marriage, Herbert revealed that there was “a moment” when everything was okay, noting that “something happened” that made her ready to leave.
“I was like, ‘This is it. There’s no going back,'” the former Bachelor contestant said, noting that it was “too personal” to share with the public.
While Herbert feels “blessed” in her second phase as a single mother, she told podcast listeners that “everyone should try to make it work” when it comes to marriage.
“We went to therapy. It lasted a long time,” she shared of her and Rosenbaum’s attempts to be together.
Herbert revealed that the therapy sessions were held on Zoom because they took place during the COVID-19 pandemic, and after they were over, she realized that nothing had changed.
“I really wanted to see if there was a way to fix these problems,” she recalls, admitting that the treatment “got a little weird” toward the end.

“I feel like when we’re in front of the camera — and we’re shooting over Zoom — I feel like when the computer is off, it’s like a different person,” Herbert explained.
“Something happened and it didn’t work,” she admits. “Have a moment with JP, a conversation. It’s about a therapy session.”
Once Herbert is The other side of divorceshe found it nice to let go of things that no longer served her.
“I think divorce can work if it doesn’t work for you,” she said. “If it’s unhealthy but you’ve worked through it, that’s okay.”
Fans got to know Herbert during Season 15 Bachelor In 2011, when she competed Brad WomackThe final rose. That same year, she was named The Bachelorette Season 7, where she Fall in love with Rosenbaum.
Rosenbaum proposed to Herbert during the May 2011 season finale, and they tied the knot in a televised wedding in December 2012.
The reality TV couple announced in October 2020 that they were splitting after seven years of marriage. US Weekly The former couple were confirmed in October 2021 Divorce is complete.
After going their separate ways, Herbert and Rosenbaum found a rhythm as co-parents and even went on family vacations that included trip to hawaii Summer 2025.