A guide to the ‘Southern Charm’ cast’s dating history

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Come to Aspen

Come to Aspen join in southern charm as a “friend” of the group during season seven in 2020, before becoming a full-time cast member the following season. She introduced her boyfriend to fans Manny Season 9 to air in 2023.

“In my heart, I feel like (he) is my forever person,” Vinita Exclusive story us Manny in September 2023. However, she revealed in the Season 10 episode, which was filmed in the summer of 2024, that she and Manny broke up when he got a job in New York.

Venita embarks on a romantic journey with cast members Jarrett “JT” Thomas In the summer of 2024, it was revealed in January 2025 that they were dating, until the Season 10 trailer was released in October 2024, with JT “disappearing from the face of the earth”. She claimed on the “Housewives Nightcap” podcast JT no ghost treats herclaiming, “He appeared on Instagram with his girlfriend.”

In Season 10, Venita was described as a “homewrecker” after claiming there was a problem with a scene between her and JT during production.

Venita clarified her relationship timeline with JT in March 2025, Exclusive story us”, “We started dating when I came back from New York in September (2024),” noting that this was a few months after the events on the show.

“That started in September, October, November,” she recalled, adding that she and JT “were trying to figure out, ‘Okay, are we doing this? Do we really like each other? Is it because we’re around each other all the time?'”

Venita explained that in November 2024, JT “posted on Instagram that he had a girlfriend,” which she revealed was “how I found out” that he was dating another guy named Ali Pereles.

While Venita said they were “just dating” and not exclusive, she claimed JT didn’t give her advance notice before publicly announcing another relationship. After the show ended, Venita cut ties with JT and didn’t speak to him again until the Season 10 reunion, which was filmed in early 2025.